She got a little quiet after we had sex, she had an orgasm and I didn’t. I was accidentally blunt about not needing help in the bathroom and she got sad.

We chatted, and the upshot was she worries that I don’t always get off, and that there’s not enough passion. Like we kissed in the kitchen earlier in the night and could have had sex then, but I waited and used it as foreplay. She thought we could have just done it multiple times.

Asked me about porn, felt that parts of it felt pornographic. But she herself watches it, yet somehow the way I fuck is a tell?

Likes: neck and ear kissing, breathing in ear, moderate choking, the grinding/boning motion.

Dislikes: head pushing, rough on clit/pussy fingering, when I don’t come.

Wants me to make more noise and shit. That’s fair. The kissing we tried linking one kiss to the next so it’s not stop/start. That was a good tip.

She’s a little self conscious about her body because she used to be thinner, and I think is trying to be again.

I thought she was going to break up with me. Probably crossed her mind.

So I think what she’s after (and she said as much) as a pretty frequent hot-passion. Should get to sex and kissing and everything much sooner upon meeting. Don’t have boring chat for too long. Can have sex, take a break and go again. I worry she’s on a wavelength more suited to a 25 year old.

My best bet to help with this is nutrition (beets and greens), stress management, weight lifting for T, and no porn without her.