Wow, more than 3 years after the breakup she asked me to look after Khaleesi. I didn’t reply, so she thanked me for our time together and and said she regrets how she was.

I said I can’t help, I don’t hold any animosity. Hopefully saying no to this request means she won’t ask again, and won’t think I’m there as a last resort option.

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Not quite. She accepted the decision, asked a lot of back and forth to check that I’m not traumatized etc. I answered to not leave her hanging, but then, she still offers for me to visit the cat and she’ll go and run errands.

Dude. I don’t want contact.